" Nothing you do for a child, is ever wasted." - Garrison Keillor
Next, play was allowed at home at the early age. I can remember after beginning kindergarten and first grade, etc. nothing was even considered until the homework was done and checked. My mom never really had a problem with getting my brother and I to go outside and play; because it was something that all th neighborhood kids did once homework was done, and school clothes were changed. We would all meet up on the block; play kickball, tag, footbll (with the boys), racing up and down the block, or if it was a gorgeous day, we would bring our bikes out. Then came dinner time, the streets were; clear, calm, and quiet. We were always told don't rush and eat your food just to go back outside, we have alwayssat down and ate as a family and we will continue to eat s a family. Luckily when the last bite was taken from my parents plate, my brother and I zoomed to clean our spaces and run back outside; which at this point we only had about two hours left before the street lights came on. Those were a sign that if they came on and your still outside; you're in trouble, we had to be physically on our porch with our last foot dragging in the house by time it clicked on to be safe.
One more aspect of play during my childhood, was being involved in sports. From the early age of four or five, I started playing soccer, onto t-ball, which I stayed with for a few years moving up to minors. I left the baseball scene for a few years and joined cheerleading for our local basketball association. I then joined the band in middle school, and later the marching band in highschool; where we traveled to all the games and even participated in competitions on the weekends near and far. I then went back to the bat and ball game during highschool; although now I was in softball, and continued playing softball for our local recreation association as well.
My hope is for the parents and children to see how important being active, and having the opportunity to play is. We are in the time where everything is about technology, which is fine; but we have to know that those things have a time and place, and should not be used as babysitters or to replace active outside time. I would really like to see a turn for the better with children going outside and getting that real-life experience.
I agree that play is much different today than it was when I was little as well. In 1985 when I was 5 years old I remember playing outside at the parks, in my backyard, and in my room with my toys and dolls. But I was not allowed to sit in front of the computer or television screen for hours on end like children now do most of the time. I agree that children take after their parents and whatever their parents do the children are going to follow. The more active you are as a parent the more active the children are going to be. Childhood obesity is a huge problem in the states, because children are not made to go outside to play, but are allowed to sit and watch television all day. As teachers we should be enforcing the concept of play in children's lives. Once they lose play, children are going to lose their childhood all together.
ReplyDeleteHi Sherrell,
ReplyDeleteI remember as a child there was this big open field in our neighborhood, where we all met and played ball. You always wanted to get on the most popular team, sometimes we did not win but, it was still fun. This was our meeting area, where we met up every day to decide what game we were going to play. I hated dodge ball because some of the kids would throw the ball at you a little too hard; to put you out of the game, but it was fun trying to see how long you could stay in. This week reading has taken back to remember how important play was in my life.
Kathleen
Sherrell,
ReplyDelete" Nothing you do for a child, is ever wasted." - Garrison Keillor
I like this quote because it puts things into perspective. As adults we often feel that our children are not listening to us or that they can be so ungrateful at times. However, if we really pay attention we find that they were actually listening and everything that we have poured into them was worth it in the long run.